Know the Traditional Wedding Custom Of Akuapem People
Few weeks ago I wrote on the
traditional wedding of the EWE and AKAN people from Ghana, the article spark up
interesting comments and observations from readers especially those from Ghana.
One recurrent observation is the door knocking ceremony done by the groom and
his people. I want to say thank you all for your comments. Today I will be
writing on the traditional wedding customs of the Akuapem people.
The Akuapem people are multi-ethnic;
they are a combination of Guans (volta-camoe speaking) and Akan people
(kwa-speaking). The Akuapem are the most humble set of people in Ghana, they
are also peaceful and respectful too. There is a saying about the Akuapem
people, “they are the only people that apologizes to you even when they want to
insult you”. For instance, when you annoy an Akuapem man, he will say “I am
very sorry but you are a fool”. Hahahaha!!! Funny isn’t it.
TRADITIONAL WEDDING CUSTOMS AMONG THE AKUAPEMS’
When a young man finds a woman he
wants to marry, he discusses with his parent about it. The parent sends out
search to look into the girl’s character and family history. Satisfied by the
findings the man’s parent reaches out to girl’s parent through a spokesperson about
their son intention. A bottle of gin is presented, the girl’s parent will
discharge the messenger, and the reply to their quest will be communicated to
them in due cause.
The parent of the bride carries
out their own investigation about the man’s family. When the girl has agreed to
marry the man and her parent also satisfied with the outcome of their search,
words are sent to the in-law through the spokesperson for a date fix for both
families to formally meet each other.
On the said date the groom
present a bottle of gin and some money, this act is known as the door knocking
– officially proposing to court her.
WEDDING CELEBRATION
WEDDING CELEBRATION
The wedding event is adorned with
beautiful colors and gorgeous Akuapem clothing/attire. There are a lot to eat
and drink, the whole place filled with people both young and old.
The bride will sit on a wooden
stool at the side of her parent and her paternal uncle; it’s the duty of her
paternal uncle to give her hand out in marriage on behalf of her father. The
paternal uncle will ask the bride; let’s say her name is Jane, “Jane should we
accept these drinks this young man is offering us, to take you as his wife?”When
she says yes to the hearing of the large gathering, there are loud cheers and
jubilations. The uncle will declare that they have accepted the drinks and
dowry/bride-price presented to them by the groom. A young uncle of hers will
hold her hand and lead her to the groom; at that point women in the wedding
ceremony start singing (for the bride) and cheering.
BRIDE-PRICE
The Akuapem are very modest people
and they have strong Christian doctoring (Presbyterian). The bible and
church hymn is very important to them. Here are list of items for any
prospective groom to consider when marrying an Akuapem lady.
A Presby hymn book (Akuapem Twi version)
Akuapem Bible
2 tubers of yam (for otoh – mashed yam and palm oil meal)
1 basket cocoyam
2 paint buckets of slimy snails
6 bunches of apem plantain
2 sets of “silver” for making abe-nkwan
Bottle of schnapps
2 create of beer and soft drink (soda)
A set of wax print cloth
Jewelry
Fine silk head tie
12 yards of quality wax print (6yards each for mother and father)
Some money for her brothers
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